I'm not sure what the port 25 is thing that the techs are talking about. Your Untangle box is attempting to send an outbound e-mail, so that has nothing to do with inbound ports on your account. The ISPs isolate outbound SMTP at the edge of their bandwidth...they monitor limit outbound SMTP to their own bandwidth.
Most ISPs (including SBC/ATT) have been moving all of their accounts over to new port 587 authentication required outbound servers, having less and less on their legacy servers like smtp.snet.net on port 25 (as those old legacy SMTP servers were easy targets for spammers).
Moving away from port 25 has been going on for quite some time now, anything that is current and important regarding e-mail should support 587....as port 25 is going the way of ISA cards and floppy drives....extinct!