in the task_manager you'll see untangle_service.exe
If thats running, then the service is started
if you see vmplayer.exe running then vmware is started
if you see vmplayer.exe running but not vmware-vmx.exe running then vmplayer.exe is blocked (thats what we are trying to figure out)
We think this is because of the license thing, which if you follow tbelote's steps it should fix...
I'm not sure why its not working in your case.
Opening in the console is just running in the foreground as the logged in user. We're removing this from the menu in the next build as its messes up everything when you do that...
if its been 20 minutes. I'd stop the service in control panel->administrative tools->services->untangle then try tbelote's steps again...