As do I, the only one I can specifically point at is the Linksys WRT54G, interestingly enough the newer N routers don't have the problem. Linksys is aware of the issue and is working on a firmware to fix the problem on their side.
Beyond that I can't duplicate what you are going through on the configuration I have. Perhaps it's a SBS thing? I've been on the pptp through UT nat on this Vista station for over a week with no disconnects.
Perhaps your UT is running into resource problems? If killing the UVM resolves the issue you've not only disabled all the UT specific securities but reduced the ram the machine needs in trade.
The unit I have in service is an Intel 3000 series entry level server with a quad Xeon 2.4 and 4gb of ram. PPTP is a very time sensitive protocol when it comes to packet delivery and if your UT is delayed by even a hair the connection will bail.