Interesting, we're also using IceWarp and are in the same situation: IceWarp + Untangle + Office 2007 = send/receive errors. I've tried everything I've found through the forums (Search: POP3 connection error) but have had to resort to bypassing the few users running Outlook 2007 to 'no rack'. Luckily, we don't have too many users on Office 2007 (yet).
Any help with this would be great, as we'd like to deploy Office 2007 to all users.